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Hexagram:
Also known as:
31. Mutual Influence
Attraction of Spirit, Magnetic Influence, Harmonious Connection, Gentle Persuasion, Inspiring Others, Subtle Impact, Drawing Others In, Emotional Resonance, Power of Softness, Influencing with Love
Line
Drawn as
Energy
Duality
Trigram
Dynamic
Polarity
Meaning
Yin
Feminine
Yang
Masculine
Yang
Masculine
Yang
Masculine
Yin
Feminine
Trigram
3
Lower
2
1
6
Upper
5
4
Mountain
Youngest Son
Immature Yang
Meaning
Lake
Youngest Daughter
Immature Yin
Technique
Yin
Feminine
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English Name
Chinese Name
Hanzi
Pinyin
Action
Hexagram:
卦 Guà
Hidden Influence:
互卦 Hu Guà (nuclear)
Underlying Cause:
綜卦 Zong Guà (reverse)
31. Mutual Influence
咸
xián
Woo
44. Coming to Meet
姤
sǔn
Encounter
41. Decrease
損
gòu
Evaluate
Expression:
I collaborate harmoniously
Affirmation:
I connect with others through understanding and compassion, creating harmony and shared growth.
Image (Legge):
A lake on the mountain: the image of Influence. Thus the superior man encourages people to approach him by his willingness to receive them.
Judgement (Legge):
Influence. Success. Perseverance furthers. To take a maiden to wife brings good fortune.
Overall meaning:
Embodies the dynamic of attraction and the power of connection between individuals. This hexagram emphasizes the importance of relationships and the subtle exchanges that occur within them. At its core, it suggests that genuine influence arises not from force or manipulation, but through mutual respect and understanding. When two parties are open and receptive, their energies can harmonize, fostering a bond that enriches both. This hexagram encourages embracing vulnerability and authenticity, recognizing that true influence stems from the willingness to engage with others on a deeper level.
The essence of Mutual Influence also highlights the significance of shared values and goals in creating meaningful connections. It calls for a balanced approach where both sides contribute to the relationship, ensuring that neither dominates nor is overshadowed. This reciprocity cultivates trust and empathy, enabling growth and transformation. Ultimately, Hexagram 31 serves as a reminder that the most profound impacts often come from the connections we nurture, inviting us to reflect on how our interactions shape our experiences and the world around us.
Quotes:
Upright Hexagram
Rotated 90°
counter clockwise
Change - - to 0
Change — to 1
Binary Number Created:
011100
Line 1:
Embarking / Initiating
The first line shows an initial stirring of attraction or influence, but it is not yet developed. This line advises patience, as rushing into action too quickly can lead to misunderstandings or unintended consequences.
Line 2:
Discovery / Inner Harmony
In this line, mutual influence begins to deepen, and there is a genuine connection. Moving forward with sincerity and openness here will bring harmony and good fortune.
Line 3:
Gateway /
Portal
The third line suggests a desire to make an impression, but this eagerness may come across as too forceful. It’s a reminder that influence is most effective when it arises naturally, without pushiness or overt attempts to control.
Line 4:
Showing up / Approach
Here, mutual influence is balanced and harmonious, with both sides supporting each other equally. This line signifies the strength of a respectful connection and encourages mutual support, leading to positive outcomes.
Line 5:
External Focus /
Periphery
The fifth line indicates a deep and powerful influence that is well-grounded and brings positive change. When actions are guided by genuine intentions and inner clarity, one’s influence naturally resonates with others, fostering unity and understanding.
Line 6:
Pinnacle / Breakthrough Awaits
The sixth line warns against trying to exert influence for personal gain or manipulation. Such actions may backfire, as influence should be based on sincerity and mutual respect rather than self-interest.
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